|Posted by Anna H. on June 24, 2017 at 8:30 AM|
How's it going my gumdrops? Once again, there will NOT be a Song Saturday or Cartoon Sunday blog this weekend. A lot has been happening on and offline.
This amount of chaos is ranging from my mother's health issues to assholes from Adult Swim cyber stalking and perpetrating a 2-year-old smear campaign against me. I was just lucky to celebrate my birthday, last Wednesday. It was as if the universe wanted to make my 35th birthday celebration miserable.
Terrorist attacks on our congressman, my grandmother starting political fights and laying guilt trips on some of us, trolls, the stormy weather, and sinuses, during my birthday sucked away part of my celebratory mood.
If I have more time this weekend, I will try sharing what I got for birthday presents last Wednesday.
Similar to an old Xanga 1.0 blog, that I published 4 years ago (The Ridiculousness Of Job Hunting), this is a rant blog about the ridiculousness of publicly shaming others online. Publicly shaming people online has become ridiculous, these days.
Over the last week to 2 years, I have endured smear campaigns, cyber stalking, and public shaming not by catty women, but by men suffering from overblown egos and Little Dick Syndrome. If you don't know what Little Dick Syndrome is, it is basically men in high positions, that abuse their power.
These are the same types of self-righteous lowlives and narcissistic sociopaths, who fail to understand WHY they have no real friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, spouses, etc.
Years ago, I LOVED being on the Internet. Now, I find myself hating it more than anything these days. The Internet has turned into an online playground for cruel, inhumane, sadistic, vindictive, and malicious men, women, and children.
People like them have ALWAYS existed, but now there are more platforms for these narcissistic sociopaths and lowlives to spread their misanthropy like life-threatening diseases. Age, gender, race, ethnicity, religion, non-religion, political affiliation, sexuality, etc. all factor into this hatred.
Originally, I was going to say that all of the above don't factor into this hatred. However, they really do. People want to hate someone for the sake of hating.
Before anyone wants to use Donald Trump as a scapegoat, this hatred existed LONG before he became our president. This level of HATRED has been ludicrous, since the year of 2000, which was just before President Bill Clinton left the White House and before the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001.
The hatred has only worsened within these last 1-3 years with so-called "political activist" groups, that provoke the genocide of law enforcement and white people.
In the 21st Century, way too many people with zero involvement in the entertainment industry are obsessed with filming and taking pictures of themselves ad nauseam. This is also when they are NOT exploiting women, children, murder, rape, suicide, natural disasters, charities, tragedies, violating our privacy, bullying, stalking, cyber stalking, and slandering others for the sake of being mean-spirited and malicious.
This may seem like slapstick humor for those depraved lowlives, but it's not for the people who have to endure it. Some who have suffered from public shaming online have lost their businesses, jobs, families, as well as their own lives, if they haven't already committed suicide over their reputations being ruined.
Some of the cynics may be scoffing and rolling theirs eyes at me for publishing this blog, especially since I am not flaunting statistical data. This does NOT require an infographic to demonstrate how abominable public shaming over the Internet has become.
Whether you are watching, reading, or listening to the news or not, publicly shaming other people online continues to increase. It is the female gender, that endures the most public shaming.
Belonging to toxic message boards such as Adult Swim and social media sites like Twitter, Reddit, and facebook are enough to make ANYONE with human decency want to delete their own accounts, if not abandon those sites.
Those toxic websites pander to and condone misogynists and misanthropes. I believe administrators shut down Adult Swim's message board without giving the community any notice, last winter because they saw how atrocious the community became.
Some of my subscribers over these last 3 years already know how horrible it was for some of us to be a part of a male dominated forum for a male-centric and divisive Cable TV network.
I never expected for everyone to like me on Adult Swim's forum. At the same time, I NEVER expected for so many posters to discriminate against me for being a newer poster, while harboring an irrational hatred towards me.
I belong to MANY websites ranging from blogging communities, social media sites, to Anime forums. NONE of those communities have ever assumed the worst about me as a human being or my good intentions. They also do NOT feel threatened or resent me for being a minority woman, who built her own website for free.
Over 2 years ago, I noticed that the people posting on Adult Swim's forum generally begrudge successful people, especially successful women. The posters waste MOST their time criticizing someone's diction, font size, font color, show ratings, politics, religion, favorite shows, etc, etc.
Shortly after joining Adult Swim's community, my feelings about the network became worse than they were before joining. I already knew that the people in charge of the network loved mocking their own viewers, were patronizing, and were EXTREMELY sexist towards women. Belonging to Adult Swim's forum was a lot worse.
Even though there were other women posting on Adult Swim's forum, the men over there barely have respect for women in general. The men have this great sense of entitlement. Not to generalize Adult Swim posters, but certain posters within that community REALLY think everyone owes them something.
The men from Adult Swim's message board compare themselves to Reddit and 4Chan trolls. Almost 2 weeks ago, a friend said that she was trying to learn Japanese. I let her know in her thread that I sent her links to Japanese books I used, throughout my years of studying.
Also, I listed 5 different styles of writing Japanese, which included Furigana. There was already an overbearing know-it-all in her thread. He claimed he was the "Go-To Guy" for studying the language because he automatically assumed, that no one else knew Japanese except him. This is where it became ridiculous.
Because I said Furigana was another way of writing Japanese, he derailed my friend's thread by discrediting me the ENTIRE time. Furigana is mostly used as a Japanese reading aid for those learning to write the language much like Romaji.
When I was learning Japanese as a teenager, that poster was ONLY a toddler. There are actual Japanese books and worksheets with Furigana and I also had teachers that taught me how to write Furigana. Here's the kicker, that poster claims to be the "Go-To Guy" YET he's not fluent in his own native language!
That poster made such a HUGE stink about what I said. Eventually, I told he and everyone else, that I studied Japanese for YEARS and have a BA in Asian Studies.
This was along with letting him know, that I was not some pretentious Weeaboo, who studied Japanese only for the purpose of wanting to understand what characters were saying in Anime.
The know-it-all became SO offended by my statement, that he implied I was lying and threatened to make "a laughingstock out of me on Reddit" only because I said, that Furigana is a part of the Japanese writing system.
Were his antics even necessary?
Finally, I told the "Go-To Guy," that he was acting like a juvenile, pompous, self-righteous, know-it-all and I let him know, that most people will NOT tolerate his antics.
Since he refused to stop derailing my friend's thread, I told him to go get bent and left. Certain Adult Swim posters have extremely overblown egos.
Typically, Adult Swim posters must turn EVERYTHING into a competition over who is right and who is wrong, need to turn fun and innocent discussions into arguments, if not purposely take something that was said out of context, must have the last word, psychoanalyze, nit pick, and discredit everything and everyone.
In addition, some of the male posters seriously expect women to be submissive and weak to them and owe them an explanation for any and every little thing someone says, does, likes, etc. This includes male Adult Swim posters being predators much like the lowlife, who has been slandering me for the last 2 years.
That narcissistic sociopath expects for women to give him nude selfies, posts revenge porn, premeditates fights among minority female posters, loves violating our privacy by publicly posting copies of our e-mail messages, anonymous reports, posting death threats, sending threatening messages to women, hacking other posters' accounts and servers, gossips about us like some high school gossip queen, etc.
Our crooked, former head moderator from Adult Swim is mostly to blame for the neverending smear-campaign, which was launched against me 2 years ago. That scumbag sadistically violated my privacy by leaking my anonymous reports to someone, who only pretended to be my friend.
That friend was a manipulative, backstabbing liar, who set me up to fight with 1 of his flunkies and got me banned on Memorial Day 2015. That was why I removed him from It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns, TWICE.
It may seem spiteful to some, BUT would you want to be "friends" with someone who sets you up to fight a flunky of theirs on a holiday? Would you want to be friends with someone, who guilt trips you? Would you want to be friends with someone, who lets their other "friends" attack you, then be blamed for being attacked and insulted for it?
Whenever I reported the attacks on Adult Swim, our former head moderator would intentionally ignore my reports.
This was when our former head moderator was NOT singling me out by making threads, threatening to ban me THRICE for anonymously reporting trolls, that attacked me and other posters, as well as sharing my anonymous reports and colluding with them.
I could list a number of atrocities our former head moderator committed on Adult Swim within these last 2 years. He panders, enables, condones, and sometimes participates in these atrocities.
For example, a few divisive Adult Swim posters wanted our sub-forum to play a game called Turkey Shoot for Thanksgiving 2015. Turkey Shoot was a game our sub-forum wanted to play, which consisted of PUBLIC SHAMING.
The objective was to find the worst threads they could by other posters. After finding those threads, posters necrobumped them to the front page saying that they "bagged a turkey."
***Whoever bagged the worst threads for PUBLICLY SHAMING POSTERS, won prizes.
Some of us did NOT participate in Turkey Shoot because it was a mean-spirited game, in disguise to play for Thanksgiving. All the while, our former head moderator always loves sitting on his high horse to preach to us about not flame baiting, necrobumping threads with malicious intent, and some other self-righteous lectures.
Originally, our moderator was hesitant to play the game. Then, my former "friend," who has been cyber stalking and smearing my reputation for the last 2 years, guilt tripped our moderator into playing that public shaming game.
Honestly, it would not surprise me, if he blackmailed our head moderator because he is just that deplorable of a human being. I still have his harassing messages that he sent me on It's Not All Gumdrops & Unicorns.
They are still in the Contact form submissions, that I receive from people who want to send a message to this website.
Because that narcissistic sociopath wants to keep cyber stalking, harassing, smearing my reputation, and publicly shaming me online, I have contemplated contacting law enforcement or the DOJ.
He is a narcissistic sociopath with mental, behavioral, and substance abuse problems. That is not including the fact, that he is an unfit father and had a hand in his friend being murdered, when he was a teenager. I only know about this because he posted about it on our former crooked head moderator's message board, earlier this year.
Some of you may be reading my blogs and assuming, that I am some militant feminazi who hates men. For the record, I do NOT hate men.
My audience has ALWAYS been male dominated because of the music I played on my radio show years ago and because of my interests. Egomaniacs have been taking me to task these last 3 years. They see me as a threat to their manhood, when I'm NOT.
Today's blog is longer than my usual blogs because publicly shaming people online is a serious problem. This problem is barely discussed. In the meantime, here is a video explaining more in detail about social media shaming.
The National: "Social Media Shaming" (2015)
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